Wednesday, June 6, 2018

Alternative Orphan Care [what it is & why it matters]

It has been on my heart for a while now to share a bit more about what I am studying and why I think it matters. And since I will be taking you along on my fieldwork journey in Ethiopia, I figured I would give some context to what I will be doing. Before I begin, I want to note that this topic is complex and I am still learning so much. I certainly do not know have all the answers and am learning knew things everyday. I will briefly share what I know with resources I've found if you want more information.

I am currently getting my masters in International Community Development. Our classes focus heavily on developmental work with a large emphasis on the voice of the local people, and how we can partner with them to produce sustainable and effective change in their communities. This involves looking at culture, poverty traps, globalization, fund development, among other things.

My focus for my thesis is Alternative Orphan Care models.

So you may be asking, the alternative to what?
I mostly mean the alternative to institutional care (orphanages) and international adoption.
Under the umbrella of alternative care is family based care and family preservation. These are efforts made towards strengthening families to prevent separation and promote reintegration. Many "orphans" are not in fact orphaned by the loss of parents, but by separation from their families due to lack of resources. It's estimated that 80% of the 150 million+ orphaned have a living family member.


In 2010, UNICEF published "The Guidelines to Alternative Care of Children" which details the efforts that should be made towards caring for orphaned and vulnerable children.
They state:
"The family being the fundamental group of society and the natural environment for the growth, well-being and protection of children, efforts should primarily be directed to enabling the child to remain in or return to the care of his/her parent, or when appropriate, other close family members. The State should ensure that families have access to forms of support in the caregiving role." 
We all know that children belong in families. To help families thrive supports the child, the family and the community at large. There is a widely accepted "continuum of care" with the family unit being the most ideal then moving through kinship care (extended family or close community members), foster care, adoption and then group homes/orphanages being least ideal. If supporting families or reuniting families is not possible, then you move through the continuum until you find safe and supported placement of children.

So why not orphanages and adoption?

Institutional Care
   Orphanages have been widely used in orphan care efforts, and though there are times they have stood in the gap, there are many issues that have arisen. The following statements are not true of all orphanages, but extreme care and discernment should be used moving forward with institutional care projects. Faith to Action breaks this down more here.

Here are some things that have been found:

- They are expensive
- They are not creating sustainable change in the community or stopping the cycle of orphans
- Children often lack holistic development and care
- Children age out without skills and development to thrive in society
- The implementation creates a culture of dependency on these institutions, and they are seen as "ideal" so families abandon their children in hope that the orphanage can provide for their child
- There is stigma and isolation in being separated from community
- Orphanages are "fund-able" so many governments and people take advantage of people's giving (as in, orphanages are built to get money and most of the funds are not going to the children)
- A gateway to trafficking children


International Adoption
   Adoption is beautiful, redemptive and needed at times. I will not discredit this. But before an adoption is an option, you must ensure the child has moved through the continuum of receiving community based care. If all options have been exhausted, they are a great candidate for adoption. The biggest need currently is for people willing to adopt children with special needs, older children and sibling pairs.

The bigger picture of international adoption is that:

- With 150 million+ orphans, adoption alone will not put a dent in this crisis
- Adoption has extreme life-long implications on a child in their development and identity (though these can be overcome)
- It is expensive (how can those resources go further?)
- Unethical practices mean that some adoptions are used as a form of trafficking (make sure you investigate your adoptions and guarantee they are being performed ethically)
- Like orphanages, it creates this image of the ideal and parents abandon children in hopes to give them a better future in the US.

More details over on this blog post: Why international adoption is not the answer.

So what is the alternative?

 Kinship Care. Foster Care. Inter-country adoption. Small family-style group homes: Empowering communities to be able to care for their orphaned children. Keeping the child as close to their original context (while still being safe) in order to not disrupt their identity or social life and to facilitate potential reintegration with his/her family. Not only that, but if we believe that children are the next generation, then having children who are invested in their communities mean that they can continue to invest in them when they are older. Investing in orphans leads to sustainable change and ends the cycle of orphans.


 In my work I want to help advocate for alternative methods and find ways they can be better implemented. During my time in Ethiopia I will be looking at Selamta's unique model (which I will share more about later) to learn about the important elements in their model. Then through my thesis I intend to propose how we can better implement and contextualize alternative care other places.


I know that this is a lot of information (even though I only scratched the surface), but thank you for taking a moment to read my thoughts.  I keep hearing people who work in this field say that the world will always have orphans, but that they firmly believe that they could see the end of the orphan crisis in their lifetime. I say, let it be so! I want to be part of this movement that is fighting to ending this crisis.

Please let me know if you have any questions or need any clarity. 

Friday, June 1, 2018

Return to the Valley

It has been over 3 years since I started this blog.
I originally named it "Take Me to the Valley" because I was moving to a literal valley (The Great Rift Valley), but I also wanted to be someone who dared to step into figurative valleys.
At the time I did not know what I would find in the valley.
And yes, I found brokenness, darkness and deep sorrow. But in the valley I found grace deeper than the cracks, beauty that defied brokenness and a raw honesty with God. My time in the Rift Valley were 10 very difficult weeks, but in an inexplicable way, 10 of the most sacred weeks. Those weeks stand as a time where God slowly broke and reshaped my heart. I saw the world differently. I saw myself differently. And I saw God differently.

After Kenya I returned to the U.S. to finish up my senior year of college. I wrestled through transition but was confident that God was about to launch me across the world...

 ...2 very long, quiet, and isolated years later I continue to repeat to myself, "You know my heart". Again and again, "You know my heart". "You know my heart". You know my broken heart. My eager heart. My heart bursting with desire. My heart saddened by disappointment. My heart that feels far from home. My heart that yearns for belonging. You know it all. And you care. Yes, Your plans are higher than mine.
 



When I said "Go!", God said "Wait." And it is hard to look no and rejection in the face. Instead of all I had envisioned for my life, God took me to a place where I had to come face to face with myself. Removed from my community, my roles, places I got my identity and places that made me feel at home - I was left empty before God. It was in this time that I began the "root growing" season in my life. You know, the ground breaking dirty work. Where there are little blooms, but immense growth. I won't romanticize this process, and I won't say that I'm not still in it. Because really, I had been in root growing seasons before. But again, God comes back to till the soil. And that waiting time is not wasted time, because God is working on things unseen.

As I continued to seek out opportunities, I finally (read "desperately") turned to one idea that I was hesitant to pursue: grad school. I did not think that God would be in it, but He was. In a whirlwind of chaos yet divine peace, I found, applied and got accepted into a masters program in the span of a week - with the program to begin 3 weeks later. I always said I would never go to grad school. And I would never ever do grad school online.

But since August I have been in an International Community Development program through Northwest University.  When I found the program and read the descriptions, it put into words so many things I had wanted or felt, but didn't know how to express. I was excited and engaged. And the program has not disappointed. I have learned SO much through this program - in so many ways. About our world, myself and our God. But this program has also led me to a place where I am about to embark on a new adventure. One where, with humility and gratitude, I will return to the valley that reshaped my life.

Friends, God has led me to Addis Ababa, Ethiopia...which rests at the top of the Great Rift Valley. This time I will be going to do research for my thesis. This immense privilege of going on this trip, let alone grad school, is not lost on me (neither are my student loans). And I recognize that this season of waiting was a time of preparation.

I stand here saying, "God is so good", but I what makes me say "God is so good", is not whether or not this program or trip happened. His goodness is not dependent on my circumstances.
Friends - His goodness is not dependent on your circumstances.

I have seen the mountain, and I have skimmed the valleys, and I know that in both:
Our God IS good. And He knows our hearts.